The Tornado that ripped through Okhlahoma

91 people dead and around 20 children.
Absolutely awful.
Apparently it was the fastest moving that the people of OK have ever faced, winds of 200/300mph, 30/40minutes of time to take cover and that’s it. Unfortunately the current technology doesn’t allow any more time than that. Realistically what people need is days to prepare for Tornados. The average path width is usually a few 100 yards… The area of this tornado was covering 20 miles long.

It’s absolutely awful and more bad weather possibly to come.

Thinking of the people in the Texas/Arkansas and Okhlahoma areas. May God be with you and your families.

My Day in Pictures

This morning, we woke up bright and early for the school run, we had been off for a week because of the nasty fever.
Dropped Oodie off and Alooia and I headed with UmNasser to grab pressies for Oodie for his birthday and also to have morning coffee and do a bit of shopping.

It was a really splendid morning. We headed to Egaila Complex (I have decided to call it that since they are building a mall in every piece of spare land around it and in 3 months we will probably have 9 malls in one place- dreading the parking), Al Liwan to be precise. I wanted Baroue. Total laziness but I just don’t have time to wrap pressies after evening homework/catchup and baths.

Al Liwan is relatively new (it’s where Geant is located) stayed there until late morning and then headed back home for brunch and to change, shower and then go get Oodie.

The cat is still patiently holding on, I don’t know how patient I can be. Spoke to a vet today that told me to just keep an eye on her and if anything out of the ordinary appears, bring her in. She actually said with a pregnant cat, you can’t have ‘patience’, you have got to have your wits about you. It is very dangerous if they go over their due date. She was attempting to get into my clothes cupboard this afternoon- no wag in hell she is getting my prada bags and LV belts covered in after birth… Hell no.

My day in Pictures…..

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On a side note: try Nestlé Toll House’s Iced Oreo Frozen Mocha —– delicious.

Man Murders Daughter and Son then flees on Roller Skates

I came across this story this morning whilst reading The Daily Mail

A father, who had up until this weekend only had supervised visits of his children was given the chance to take his kids for the weekend unsupervised.
The mother had warned authorities that the man was dangerous but her worries and fears were ignored by French government and the British born man was allowed to take the children unsupervised. He had them no longer than 24 hours and had slit both their throats.

There really are no words to explain how awful this is….

May God protect the mother and give her strength at this tragic time and may he hang. (UK- bring back the death sentence)

Sami AlBader tonight on Oud at Al-Hamra

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Via Expatandthecity

I don’t usually post things like this but this actually interested me. I love Traditional Music.

Tonight you can hear Sami Al Bader on Oud at Al-Hamra. I have no other information whatsoever and it doesn’t appear Expat has either. If anyone knows, tweet me or email me and I’ll update the post.

Haters will be Haters but Beggars can’t be choosers.

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In life, it is NOTED that we have haters but the truth is, none of us care. Do you?
As an almost 30 year old woman, I for one couldn’t give a damn about what anyone thinks of me and why should I? Why should any of us?
Aren’t we all in control of our own lives? Our own destiny?
Were we not all given this wonderful gift of life and freedom of speech? Free thinking? Brains?

I may be blunt, sharp, and straight to the point. But really, in the end, I’m just your average human being and a nice human being. BUT- Try to hurt my family and yes, you will be sorry. Try to hurt me, and yes, you will pay and remember, beggars CAN’T be choosers.

- potty mouth alert -

Y’all, I don’t know what gave some the impression that I didn’t swear. I do. I’m not perfect and I never said I was, it shows your arrogance for making such an assumption.

”Haters keep on hating cus we all gonna keep on bloggin”- anon

- and no, I don’t use a potty mouth around my children, my maids tend to though (when I have one).
What is it with filipinas shouting shit every two seconds?

I felt slightly like Snoop Dogg writing this post.

The point is: if you don’t like that there may be a possibility of the occasional 18+ explicit, then don’t read. Don’t read my tweets either. Lol. They should really come with a warning.

Peace and light people- Namaste

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The Serdab Studio

A few months ago, BoKhaloodie and I visited x-cite. Bokhalid and I had been interesting in getting a professional camera for awhile. We both had different interests though. Him- portraits, people and objects…
Me- typical, english woman, the countryside, nature and landscapes.
We purchased the camera but I didnt/haven’t used it much. A few beach photos here and there with the kids but nothing very scenic.
Several weeks ago, we priced buying a mini studio for one of our spare rooms. We figured it would be fun for the kids and us ;)
It was going to cost around 280kd for shipping fees from the states- the backdrops were made of steel/iron … Yes and aramex charge per kilo. We figured that was silly and by the time we paid Kuwait prices, it would work out the same.

A few days ago Bokhalid appeared home with a mini studio. He has used it a few times already ‘dewania guys night’ lol and this evening, here. The kids loved it, it was fun. I’m just so happy that I can capture these memories in high definition and in the comfort of my own home. Family gatherings are now going to be even more fun as the studio is portable and can be moved.

BoKhalid has amazing skills for a beginner, not sure how much patience he has though- alooia was a right wiggly worm.
If you as a family are looking for a new hobby that you can enjoy indoors and outdoors, i definitely recommend investing in one of these cameras and studios.

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Justin Bieber loses his monkey

You all know I’m a big believer in the bieber fever. NOT.
Lol.

This kid annoys the hell out of me, I was over the moon when I heard of his marijuana smoking- what a role model for young girls- NOT.

This morning, I heard on the radio, he has lost his monkey…. Lol. Yes, he had a pet monkey.

He tried to enter Germany, two months ago, monkey in tow… Unfortunately (fortunately for me) he had the wrong paper work…. The monkey was quarantined and he had 4 weeks to send the correct papers to recover the monkey and well, no surprise, he didn’t.

Great advocate for young girls. A monkey is for life not just for Stardom… (or so he thought)…

Spokesperson for the Animal Shelter in Munich has said, ‘emails from Bieber’s management to the shelter indicated the singer does not want the monkey anymore, but that the final decision would have to be made by German authorities.’ Source.

The Deadly Virus- Don’t always trust the doctors in Kuwait

Around 9 days ago, Oodie fell ill, simple flu/cold, yes we thought so but after the fever NOT falling by Day 4 and him breaking out very quickly over 24hours in a rash, we headed to the clinic.

‘It’s a virus, no need for antibiotics’.

Ok, I settled for that but as we know here, some doctors simply can’t be trusted, qualifications are rarely displayed and having twice been wrong before with Oodie, I decided to give her the benefit of the doubt and give it another 48 hours as she suggested and see what happened.

We were given an antihistamine for the rash as she believed it was an ‘allergy’… Why is everything an ‘allergy’ these days?
Has he had the nebuliser before?
Why do they give all kids this here? We never ever get this in UK, only in extreme situations. I have never in my life been given that…. Don’t kids need to fight things themselves?
I know an in law here and her kids are on that nebuliser once a month?
Anyway, back to the story….

So 12 hours after leaving the clinic, it got Alooia. Yep, 39.4 … Defo time for panadol, infact, it’s almost too late for just panadol. A tepid/cold towel bath was needed. That was her sorted. Back to check his rash. I had taken before and after pics, and also circled one to check it didn’t change drastically. It hadn’t. It definitely didn’t seem as severe as the night before.

So both kids sick. Hey, it wasn’t a bad thing. We spent Wednesday afternoon watching Harry Potter.

Everything was fine until Wednesday evening…. Why on earth did I feel so cold? Literally, felt like I was naked standing in the middle of the North Pole… Ohhhh, no, it’s the fever. I had felt this before. Strangely three years before, shortly after I had Oodie I got an infection in my wound (emergency c section), thank you dirty NHS. I know myself, I definitely needed an antibiotic. This wasn’t just a common cold. I was really really sick.

So, by Wednesday night, we all had it, me and the kids.

‘Enough!’ I thought, this isn’t no virus, it’s been 7 days and Oodie still has his fever, there has to be an infection somewhere. Time to get an antibiotic.
Oodie started his antibiotic yesterday and this morning his temp is only 36… YAY hallelujah! Finally.

My throat gradually got sore over the last 48 hours and I too got an antibiotic. Feel much better.

I’m guessing it was/is strep throat. Few kids in Oodie’s class off and one in particular with Scarlet Fever which results from Strep sometimes.

This morning, day 9 of the whole everyone being sick – BoKhaloodie now has it :(

On the plus side, the maid is arriving in the next 24 hours.

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Thought this picture was hilarious….All joking aside… Never trust the doctors here 100% or anywhere in the world. (I was told I could have cervical cancer a year ago- I didn’t), always get second opinions or trust your own instinct. I did get the opinion of a doctor in the UK (thank you Facebook-lifesaver) and she suggested I get us all on an antibiotic. Thank you Dr K. Her words were, ‘mum’s know their own kids best, do what you think is right’.

She is quite right, we know our children better than anyone and our own bodies better than anyone.

I’m glad I got Oodie the antibiotic because he now seems to be on the mend, Alooia started hers this morning and I suspect BoKhalid will be heading to the pharmacy shortly, fingers crossed we get over this deadly ‘virus’ soon.

The Maternity Suite (18+)

Yesterday, my heavily pregnant kitty decided to tip up her litter tray and quite literally shit all over the birthing bed…. This was just one hour after I had cleaned the whole bathroom from top to bottom- thank you, Minnie dearest.

Update on her:
We think we have around 72 hours to go. All of the mamaries are now exposed and the hair around 7 out of 8 has separated so she is more than ready to feed her little ones.

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It’s not easy to get a picture of her. She is super grouchy and doesn’t want anyone close to her belly.

The signs are all there that birth is imminent but they have been for a couple of weeks.

We have given her a new birthing bed. She seems to like it and has tossed the sheets already, she started nesting around 24 hours ago. Now it’s just a waiting game.

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Will be uploading the birthing process hopefull via my YouTube channel and of course, via Instagram!

Will let you all know when it begins!

Policeman’s life worth more than a civilian?

Flabbergasted. Just heard on the news this morning that UK and Northern Ireland are trying to change the law so that anyone convicted of murdering a police or prison officer should never be allowed to leave jail. Surely this is complete madness? Surely the law should be changed to murder is murder and life means life.. Why would a police or prison officer’s life be more meaningful than your average civilian? Surely all murderers should never be allowed to leave prison regardless of who the victim is.

Crazy.

Duet between Tamer Hosny and JLo

Ahhhhhh my love, Tamer Hosny, the first Arabic love song my hubby ever sent to me was by Tamer Hosny – I guess that’s when I fell in love with him them… Both. Lol

These pictures are floating around Facebook.

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Rumour has it, there could possibly be a duet between the two. I actually think that could be pretty cool.

Our photographs show our fears

Believe it or not, the answer, if you don’t know it, may be hidden within your pictures.

Studies show we photograph what we cherish most which in actual fact can be our biggest fears. We photograph our children because we love and cherish them, we want to have memories, not necessarily because we are worried something might happen but as a parent there is always that ‘doubt/what if’ in our minds.

There’s a lot to be said for Kuwait’s Instagram: food, food, portraits of ourselves and again, more food.

So what’s the problem here? People don’t know where their priorities should be? Are self-portraits a silent cry for help? Does getting 120+ likes from strangers make you feel better about yourself?

What do you think?

The inspiration for this post actually came from q8blend. Just yesterday I read about about Kuwait’s Instagram over on their site and it made me wonder. Where are all the good quality pictures of Kuwait? There used to be some but it seems now, all of us (I’m guilty of it too) prefer posting google images/quotes…
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, Instagram in Kuwait isn’t what it used to be, main reason being, people ‘like’ what they see, not what they actually like. I proved it last week by posting a picture of a rat that had been dissected – how could anyone LIKE that? It was completely and utterly gross but it got 80 likes? Silly? Yes, I thought so.
What’s the secret? Why do we constantly post pictures of food here? What’s the real secret behind selfies?
Do you think Kuwait themselves have ruined Instagram?